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Kids Advocacy Resource Effort PO BOX 1392 Waynesville, NC 28786 phone: 828-456-8995 fax: 828-456-8905 |
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A message from the DirectorAt KARE our mission is to end child abuse and neglect through advocacy, education and support. We offer programs that strengthen families by providing resources and tools parents and relative caregivers need in raising their children. We offer specific services to families that have experienced abuse situations, and we provide programs that prevent problems before they occur. In short, we meet families where they are. As part of our effort to reach families, we publish a monthly article on parenting issues in The Mountaineer. Our most recent article can be viewed below. We hope that you will find this information useful and thought provoking. If you would like more information on this topic or have questions about other parenting issues, please contact us @ 456-8995. Thank you for your interest in KARE. Yours in service to our children, Theresa Morgan Fatherhood-The Never-Ending StoryWritten by Marguerite SmithPosted: 2008-06-11 
Traditionally, women are viewed by society as the primary caregivers for their children. In the month of June, specifically June 15th, we would like to recognize the sometimes "unsung hero" of parenting. We want to celebrate the fathers, dads, granddads, and pops who take an active role in helping our children become happy, healthy, and productive adults! The role of Fathers has changed significantly over the years. Fathers are not only the financial provider but also a playmate, problem solver, skill builder, coach, encourager, teacher, transporter and sometimes primary caregiver. Fathers teach their children how to be an appropriate parent by being a good role model. It is estimated that working dad's today spend about 3 minutes a day with their children, but this can be changed. The changes do not have to be in great quantity as much as in great quality. According to The National Fatherhood Initiative (fatherhood.org) there are 10 ways to be a better Dad: 1. Respect Your Children's Mother: A father and mother who respect each other, and let their children know it, provide a secure environment for them. 2. Spend Time with Your Children: Treasuring your children often means sacrificing other things, but it is essential to spend time with them. Kids grow up so quickly. Missed opportunities are forever lost! 3. Earn the Right to be Heard: Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier to handle as they get older. Take the time to listen to their ideas and problems. 4. Discipline with Love: All children need guidance and discipline within reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions. Fathers who discipline in a calm and fair manner show love for their children. 5. Be a Role Model: A daughter who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys and what to look for in a husband. Fathers teach their sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility, kindness, and responsibility. 6. Be a Teacher: A father who teaches his children about right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good life choices. 7. Eat Together as a Family: Sharing a meal together gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do. It is also a good time for Fathers to listen and give advice. 8. Read to Your Children: Children learn best by doing and reading, as well as seeing and hearing. Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they will have a lifetime of personal and career growth. 9. Show Affection: Children need the security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted, and loved by their family. Fathers need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Showing affection every day is the best way to let your children know you love them. 10. Realize that a Father's Job is Never Done: Fathers continue to play an essential part even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they will still look to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Ultimately, father's who look for a variety of ways to be involved in their child's life contribute to a more cooperative, happier family life and a healthier, successful future for their child." (http://edis.ifas.ufl.edu) So once again, on June 15, 2008 let us all recognize and celebrate that important man in our lives that does so much and may not always hear the words: "Every father should remember that one day his child will follow his example instead of his advice". (Unknown Quote) 2010-02-11 - TEMPER TANTRUMS! WHAT NOW? 2009-06-03 - Parenting- Summer Fun and Safety 2009-05-08 - Parenting-Back to the Basics 2009-04-13 - What you need to know about Child Abuse and Neglect 2009-03-17 - Basics of Parent Communications 2009-02-02 - Catch your Children being Good! 2009-01-13 - Fantasic Parenting 2008-12-04 - To Love and be Loved 2008-11-11 - Parenting through the Holidays 2008-10-03 - Teens- Love and limits 2008-09-04 - Labor of Love 2008-08-01 - For the Love of Family 2008-07-11 - Encouraging Your Child to be Independent 2008-06-11 - Fatherhood-The Never-Ending Story 2008-05-12 - Calling All Nurturers |
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